May 1st marked the day of my first bjj competition at the American Cup in San Jose, Ca.  Luckily I did not need to cut any weight and it was an early match so I could finish it early and cheer for my teammates.  My first (and only) match was with a tough opponent from Cia Paulista.  I spent most of the match in guard or attempting to pass.  After five long minutes, it was a referee’s decision to her.  I left the mat indifferent and hoped that since I